I’m Every Woman” — More Than Just a Song, It’s My Life’s Anthem :)
As I get older (and maybe a smidge wiser!), I look back on my journey and the different roles I’ve embodied as a woman. It’s fascinating to see these roles, and how all my choices and decisions (right or wrong ones) within each one, have shaped me into the woman I am today.
Women are beautifully diverse in shape, form, culture, heritage, and mindset, yet there is an essence that unites us all. What is the common thread in our global sisterhood?
During a moment of me-time (ok more like an hour of moments), I was listening to one of my favourite playlists, and “I’m Every Woman” by Chaka Khan started playing (I love this song) which got me feeling all nostalgic and teary-eyed.
Btw, how is it possible to dance and cry at the same time? To feel bittersweet joy in a single moment?
Anyhoo, back to the song . . . Now, as I groove to this classic in a different stage of my life, the words resonate differently than they did back in my 20s and 30s. Life has a funny way of doing that, doesn’t it? A book, a song, a perspective — they all hold different meanings as we accumulate miles on this predictably unpredictable journey of life.
This song isn’t just a catchy tune — it’s loaded with a powerful, more meaningful message than ever. So much sass and punch! WOW!
Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.
A Message Packed with Sass and Substance
When Chaka belts out, “I’m every woman, it’s all in me,” it hits me on so many levels. It’s not just about being a superwoman who can do it all (though, we’re pretty fantastic at that), but It’s about embracing every aspect of who we are — daughter, sister, mother, friend, wife, dreamer, warrior — every hat we wear, in no particular order.
The song sings to the strength, versatility, and empowerment essence of a woman. Its lyrics remind us that as women, we possess the inner power to be anything we choose. We’re self-sufficient, resilient, and can handle whatever comes our way.
As I listen now, I realize it’s telling me that within every woman, we carry the qualities and strength of all women, a universal, collective power. We’re not limited to one role or identity. We are complex, multifaceted, and capable of achieving great things — if we dare to look beyond our self-imposed limitations.
Roles and Realizations
This brings me back to my earlier point: “I am every woman” speaks to the various roles we play — daughter, sister, wife, friend, and more. Each role comes with its unique set of experiences, challenges, and joys.
For example, as a daughter, a woman learns and inherits wisdom from her elders; as a sister, she shares and experiences camaraderie and rivalry; as a wife, she experiences partnership with another soul; and as a friend, she offers and receives support and love.
And each role comes with its own superpower. As a daughter, I’ve learned compassion. As a sister, I’ve mastered the art of sharing (almost!). As a friend, I’ve become a champion listener. Each has shaped and challenged me, making me more… well, me.
Of course, balancing these roles isn’t always easy breezy. But life wasn’t meant to be easy. If we remember that these roles are not just societal expectations, but as spaces for growth, learning, and self-expression.
On our individual journeys of self-realization and empowerment, through the choices and decisions we make, and the drama of life challenges and victories we encounter, we find the divine essence in every essence of being a woman and honor the journey within each role.
So, darling, if you’re having one of those WTF! days, just remember you are not alone. Be gentle with yourself, and celebrate each role you play as an expression of your limitless spirit.
Giggle at your perfectly imperfect lives, embrace the chaos, and find your rhythm in it. Your journey is unique, and your rhythm is yours alone — don’t compare it to anyone else’s. You have meaning and value, even if you don’t see it now.
Oh, and if you’re pondering the “whys” of life, take it as a sign — your journey of spiritual awakening has begun. Gradually, life will start to unfold with more clarity as you continue on this path of self-discovery.
Like Chaka said, it’s all in us. We’ve got this! :)
PS. Did you crank up this classic after reading it? Let me know in the comments! :)
